Is It Even Possible?

Sandra tries to reconcile her disappointment and focus on what is workin in her relationship. Yet, the sadness does not leave her…

We are unintentionally hurting each other and making ourselves miserable due to lack of communication and focus. He complained that no matter what he does, it always seems to be wrong. It’s not what he does, but how he does it that hurts me so. 

Things that make me sad:

  • Everytime we are at an event/party or have people over he showers everybody else with attention and not even for a second thinks about me. I don’t need much, sometimes just a loving glance will do…
  • He is always grumpy when I suggest something for us to do together, but if somebody else offers doing the same thing he willingly accepts it 
  • He curses and talks negatively all the time
  • Profane jokes are fine, but they don’t do anything for me in bed. Huge turn off…