What Makes People Have Affairs?

If placing conditions created conditional love, is it that dropping all mind-made rules leads to deep acceptance and real love? Even if it is in the form of an affair? Solange ponders…

What if I manifested this? What if my subconscious secretly wanted to experience a passionate affair, like in the movies? I have such an insatiable curiosity, I always want to know the why and the how behind things. Why do the people who seem to be very happy and content in their marriage end up having a double life and an affair on the side? Am I secretly worried that Steve might be seeing another woman and that’s why he is so emotionally withdrawn? Or have I been craving deep intimacy for so long that this desire took shape in the face of another man? I have to get to the core of this, to understand, so I can make peace with it and let it go.