fake or real? – duty to a seeming other or owning your true self? – building up an image or dismantling a conditioned personality? – social games or intimacy? – love of power or the power of love? – repeating the same old or creating something entirely new? – security and predictability or guts to go into the unknown? – past/future or the present? – chasing a goal or enjoying your own dance? – mundane or miraculous? – choices, consequences or simply what is and how you view it? – and much more… or only love?